And take care of the kids an hour every day so I can read it outside, by myself. We are stressed too. If we complain, we are nagging. Some of us love to work, and while being a mom is my #1 priority, I miss being a person sometimes. It sounds like she has depression. Depression isn’t always feeling sad or low and wanting to commit suicide, depression comes in all different ways, I understand how she is feeling, I used to be fun & happy and then I had PND and I was always irritated and snappy and felt so blah inside.